Thailand’s Election: Message for the Nation

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Many have been calling Thailand’s upcoming July 3rd elections its “Moment of Truth.”

I woke up this morning with the nation on my heart and some thoughts began to come to me before I was out of bed.   I began to thinking of a storm and how to best prepare for it.

This is the perspective and thoughts of one individual Christian leader concerning Thailand’s future.  However, it is a prophetic message for every good person who is willing to take time to listen with an open heart and mind.

Many Biblical scriptures began to come to my mind, so I began to write for Thailand.  Continue Reading…

Sample Covenant For Missionary Teams

Relational breakdown is one of the key factors that causes missionary teams to dissolve and workers to leave the field prematurely.  Most of the problems could probably have been avoided with a little more communication and understanding worked out up front.

This sample covenant was developed by a missionary trainer who worked over 50 years in missions teams and communities.  Feel free to use it and adapt it to your culture.

Our Covenant

As God’s children, relying on His life within us we,  _____________________________________, in light of our shared vision to serve God and our desire to glorify Him, commit ourselves to love one another and to: Continue Reading…

Drawn Together For a Purpose

We became known as the "Revival Team"

We recently hosted our very first missions team here in Thailand.

The team was drawn together individually and separately from each other, but they all came together at the same time with a heart to serve!

It was a God ordained moment.

I didn’t really know what would take shape as we formed up, but we moved forward by faith anyway.

I was very pleased with what God did in and through each of us.

Here is the story of how each came: Continue Reading…

Spiritual Atmospheres

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I was traveling on my motorbike today checking out a new village area and thought to myself, “I really like this area. It feels so peaceful and nice.” I felt an overall sense of peace.  Shortly after, I saw a sign for a Bible school , then a large Christian Church compound, then a Christian cemetery. Uncommon feeling in Thailand for me and uncommon sites.

Coincidence?…I think not!

Spiritual “atmospheres” are real. Continue Reading…

Why Spread the Flame?

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So, why the name “Spread the Flame”?  What’s it all about?

Glad you asked… (Well, you are reading this for a reason, right?)

Fifteen years ago I listened to a message that would leave an indelible mark on my life and shape my future ministry.

Missionary Evangelist Steve Hill preached a message where he used Olympic torchbearers as an illustration.  He vividly painted the picture of those who had the honor of carrying the olympic torch for their nation while the world looked on.

Each person didn’t run the race completely on their own, but had the responsibility to pass the torch to the next person.  Eventually the fire would make it all the way to the crowded and cheering stadium where the final large fire would be lit.

The evangelist asked the crowd listening that day what they thought would happen if one of those runners decided that he didn’t want to run anymore? Continue Reading…

Missionaries: Numbers and Need

A Special Breed: Out of 6.5 billion people on the planet, there are only 430,000 Missionaries from ALL branches of “Christendom.”

Even more precious: Only between 2 and 3% of these 430k missionaries work among unreached peoples. Of the 2-3% of all missionaries working among unreached people groups, not all are strongly evangelical or believe in operating in the gifts of the Holy Spirit.

*Here in Thailand, according to a recent study on church growth, 1/3 of all Thai who came to Christ came because of a miracle, sign, or wonder! Truly the Kingdom of God is not merely a matter of talk, but of power! (I Cor 4:20)

It is estimated that most long term missionaries will not make it past the five year mark in service. ”Missionary attrition” is a big problem which begs questions about how we are preparing and caring for these precious servants of God once they decide to “Go.”

With much of the church in the West talking about “restoring honor,” I believe we need to restore honor to our modern heroes of faith, our long term cross cultural missionaries. The famous preacher C.H. Spurgeon was quoted as saying, Continue Reading…

Missions Giving & Partnership

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“The Gospel is free but the road it travels on takes money, and lots of it.”-Mike Turner

I wanted to take a moment to share a few principles that have been on my heart about giving and how mission partnership works.  I have found that for many in my generation or newer generations, there is not much of an understanding of how missions giving fits into the world of supporting the Kingdom of God today. Continue Reading…

Grab Hold of The “That”

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Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to

take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Phil 3:12 NIV

This scripture has been floating around in my heart for a little while now and it speaks to me so deeply about something that we all need in life…purpose. Continue Reading…

Thai Culture 101

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It’s one thing to learn a spoken language.  It’s quite another thing, but also very essential, to learn the unspoken language of a culture.

One thing is for sure, Thai culture is much different than Western culture.  It can be a little disorienting at first, but if you are open minded and willing to learn, you can adjust quickly.

Here are just a few key parts of Thai culture that we have learned more about since living here.

The Wai- The Wai is the way that Thai people greet one another.  In the West, we shake hands, but in Thailand, we wai.  Both hands are raised in a prayer like manner, touching the body between chest and forward.  The higher the wai the more respect is being shown.  Usually juniors will wai seniors first.  The wai is used to show respect, courtesy, and even worship.  If a wai is not returned when given it denotes that the person who did not return it is higher in social standing.  For instance, the wai is generally not returned to waitresses and waiters at a restaurant.

Jai Yen- This literally means “cool heart.”  It is in distinction to “jai rawn” which means “hot heart.”  Thais value keeping your cool, especially in public.  It doesn’t matter how bad the situation gets in personal conflict, the Thai will work to keep cool and keep smiling.  Anyone who carries on in public is seen as weak morally and a great embarrassment to himself and others.  I find that we in the West tend to be alot more aggressive in interpersonal relationships than we realize.  If you live in this culture any length of time, you will have to change or you will crazy!  Although Thai people put alot of emphasis on being polite and courteous in face to face interaction, those rules generally go out of the window when it comes to traffic and cutting in “lines.” Continue Reading…

Missionary Life: Culture Shock (ing)

Culture shock is a real deal scenario for missionaries serving cross culturally.  It is a huge issue that people need to understand before they come so that they can recognize it and be ready to deal with when it comes.

For me, it was a mixture of not even being able to count to three in the language yet, being stared at constantly, not knowing who was friend or foe, not understanding the subtle cues of non verbal communication, new spiritual realities, fear of being taken advantage of, and the pressure of helping my family adjust at the same time.

Sometimes I just wanted to stay inside, close up the house, turn the AC on full blast, click on one of the only English channels I had, order McDonalds delivery, and surf YouTube for videos from back “home.”  Thankfully I am far beyond that place now and love my new home country!

Some would be missionaries may think they are the exception to the rule of culture shock, but that is very very rarely the case with anyone I have spoken with.  I think we don’t like to admit that we are “going through it” because we may be perceived as weak or not spiritual.  The reality is that all of us are “weak” and we can’t do it alone.  We need the help of community, the help of others to make it through.  I think this is a good thing.  It has a way of working on and chipping away at our pride which is one of the major hinderances of being a learner of another culture.

Continue Reading…

Missions & Your Children’s Education

One of the aspects of missionary life among the “unreached” that I didn’t think a whole lot about before arriving overseas is the education of my children.  I had certain assumptions and had to learn through experience and time what would work and what would not.

Thinking Through the Issues:

Of course we gave some though about schooling for our kids while oversees, but we just assumed that we would homeschool them just like millions of other American families have been doing successfully.

Many of the available curriculum are solid and varied and we know of other examples missionary families that are doing it well.  But there are alot of challenges we faced that forced us to look into other options including private schools, both Thai and International standard.

We had to work through this thing for ourselves.  I guess you will have to face these issues too if you are coming to serve cross culturally as a family or as one that will be a future family.

One of the first questions that may pop into your mind if you have never lived overseas among another people is

“why wouldn’t you just put your kids in the public schools there, just like any native would”?

That’s a good question, but the answer is a difficult one.

I wrote a little about the complexity in my post, “The Challenge of Living Between Two Worlds.”

But in short, the educational standards and focus are not the same as they are in the West.

Here are just a few ways schools can be different oversees:

Discipline and Correction:

Even modes of correction and discipline given by teachers is different.  For instance, in one Thai private school when a teacher was correcting our then six year old son she told him, “If you don’t behave you will have to go into the dark room alone…where the devils and ghosts are.”

You can imagine how traumatic this could be for any kid that age, much less a Christian worker’s kid!  When we asked our Thai friends about this scenario, they were a little embarrassed but admitted that this is type of “discipline” is common.

Recently in the news here in Thailand, a teacher was caught on video paddling students in front of the class.  This man is shown leaning into the student’s backside with a full swing that would make A-Rod proud! Continue Reading…

Held Back From Cross Cultural Missions

You see the need.  You are stirred.  You hear the call.  You begin to prepare.

But what can keep you from your cross cultural mission?

Here are a few things I had to personally overcome.

As you read this, be encouraged to walk free and move toward the burning desire God has placed in your heart!

Crippling Debt-

The average American carries an average of anywhere from $7,000-$15,788 (14.5% average rate) in credit card debt; add to that high student loans (anywhere from an average of $5k to well over $100k), and you are putting yourself in a position to be forced to wait until you have knocked most of that, if not all of it down, before you are sent.

Is this one of the reasons we are seeing less and less young people from America coming overseas?

We in the West have to learn the principle of “delayed gratification.”  This is a tough thing for us since we are bombarded with constant media telling us to not be satisfied.  But I believe that if we faithfully practice the principles of finance found in God’s word, we will be able to free ourselves from the debt. We will also find that we not only have enough for our real needs, but we also have an abundance for every good work.

Incompatibility -

Once you are married you are in a life long covenant.  That’s why its important to know before you are married whether or not you want to be a missionary.

One of the first questions I used to ask my former girlfriends is “how do you feel about living in another country…as a missionary.”  If they were not interested I knew it wouldn’t work!

If you are already married, don’t give up on your partner if you want to serve overseas.  Take them along with you in the journey slowly.  As you move forward together, God can open their heart and show you his plan that includes both of you in all of your individual giftings and personality working together overseas.

If you are single, and want to stay that way, skip down to #6! Continue Reading…

Kingdom or Organizational?

How do you tell you if you are involved in a “Kingdom” work or an “Organizational” work when it concerns the Gospel, or more specifically, when it comes to church and/or cross cultural work?

Here are some insights from one of my favorite practicioners, David Watson:

Following are some filter questions I use to determine if I am involved in Kingdom work instead of organizational work.

  • Is the work founded on Scripture-only or is it doctrine-based?
  • Is the work obedience-based, insight-based, or knowledge-based?  (Obedience-based and knowledge-based are probably familiar terms.  Insight-based is about discovering all the nuances of Scripture, but may not lead to obedience if insight is the goal.  Most expositors and commentators are insight-based.) Continue Reading…

Missions Adrift

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With our generation being bombarded by so much slick marketing and social media driven causes, it seems as if we may be drifting away from the core of what missions is.

Missions is losing its moorings, its definition, and is adrift.

Matthew 28:18-20 is the core of verse of cross cultural missions work.  It is the reason we go.  The last will and testament from the Lord Jesus Christ to the church of all generations.

Go.

Where?

Into all the world.

What should we do?

Preach the Gospel (so that it is clearly understood within that person’s own cultural context and language.  Shouting in the streets unintelligibly and simply quoting something to yourself like “God’s word won’t return to him void!” doesn’t count.)

What is the Gospel?

It is the Good News of Jesus’ death for sin and His resurrection; which is the defeat of sin, death, and Satan for all who believe and turn from the things that got us here there in the first place.

Then what?

Baptize those who believe in the name and authority of God (Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.)

What is our confidence?

The Lord Jesus himself promises, “I will be with you always, even unto the end of the age.”

Yet, with the simplicity of this one command being lost, it is being replaced with Christian “causes.”  Continue Reading…

Available in Chiang Mai

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I woke up at 4:00 am and was on the road by 4:15.  As I pulled out of my neighborhood on the motorbike, everything was eerily quiet. The mountain air was pretty cold, especially for Thailand.

I thought to myself, “Even the devil isn’t awake right now”!

I laughed at that thought and then gunned it down the dark street heading toward my friend’s house.  The team was there and we started to pray by 4:30.  By 5:00 we were in the city center and split our 8 member team into teams of two.  We would stay close to each other-within eye site at the city gate and talk to whoever would listen.

We would hand out Gospel literature to anyone who would take it.

I entered through the gate and the first person I saw was a young girl sitting alone, sobbing.  I walked straight over to her, sat down, and said to her in Thai, “What’s wrong”?  She looked at me and said back in Thai, “Never mind.”  I began to open up a conversation as my team mate sat next to me.

The next thirty plus minutes were a God encounter.  

I found out that this girl had moved from Udon Thani, a province next to the one where I used to live, Khon Kaen.  She was clearly not enjoying the life that she had chosen in the big city of Chiang Mai.

I told her that God loved her, had a plan for her life, and that what she was doing now was not a part of it.  I spoke to her about what it meant to be a good person and we both agreed that no one really was totally good.  She went on to tell me how she wants to do what is right but something is always pulling her back into what she knows is wrong.  I told her that she needed a helper. Then I preached the Lord Jesus and the Holy Spirit as our Helper. Continue Reading…

Invitation to the Kingdom

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I wanted to share a little project that I recently completed.

It is a little booklet called “Invitation to the Kingdom.”

Here in Southeast Asia, small pieces of literature can still be effectively used to present an intro the the Good News who may never otherwise have a chance to hear.

A recent study said that over 60% of Thai people who came to Christ were influenced in their decision by a small piece of literature; not TV, radio, or books, but small pieces of easy to understand literature.

These booklets are not trashed like they are many times in the Western world.  People hold on to them and pass them around to friends and family.  They put them on their shelves and end up pulling them out in times of crisis when they are looking for answers.

In the Western world people say things like “We’ve heard it all before,” and that’s true!  But there are still those, especially in Thailand, who have never heard it ONCE!  (There goes that spoiled analogy again).

In regards to the actual message, I say it’s an “intro” to the Good News because I am not looking for it to accomplish a whole lot more than that.  It comes from the paradigm of being invited into God’s royal family as a son or daughter or the Kingdom and inheriting all things.

This project arose from a burden I have to see every Thai person have an opportunity to hear the message and let it begin to stir inside of them.  I envision what was once void, now being filled with thoughts of Jesus, heaven, and the real potential of salvation.

Here in Thailand, I watch daily as I pass construction workers sweating it out for 12 hours a day, 7 days a week, and I think to myself, “how will they hear?  who will go to them”?  I hear the same thing for countless other faces I see each day like cooks, tuk tuk drivers, gardeners, street vendors, shop owners, etc.

The reality is they will NOT hear unless one goes to them. (Romans 10:13-15) Most are not darkening the door of any church or Christian meeting. I am preparing to go.  Somehow, some way in God’s timing. Continue Reading…

Missions Prep: Balance and Alignment

Recently I had some repairs done on my old car here in Thailand.  One of the things I needed was some new tires but I also needed some alignment and suspension work.  My mechanic would not be able to get to my suspension work, but I wanted to feel like I got something accomplished so I got four new tires put on with the goal of returning to my other mechanic to get the suspension work done the next day.

My tire guy tells me that I need to return to rebalance the tires once my suspension work is done.  Long story short, I thought he had balanced the tires already and would only need to RE balance them after the suspension work was done.  I didn’t think it was that big of a deal.  I know, I’m a moron.

Life took over and the kids needed to get to school and I never did return for the alignment and balance.  Within about a week or so, my front two new tires were almost bald and I was desperately needing to make a trip to Laos.  I returned to my tire guy, mad at him like he was the one who caused this problem, and he asked me why I didn’t return to get the balance and alignment.  I realized then that he had never done either.  There was no “Re” to be done.  I had never even had it done in the first place.

I was in a hurry.  Everything was lost in translation (or I heard what I wanted to hear).  It was really my fault.  And needless to say, I paid the price…again…and possibly put my family in a more dangerous situation.

So, what’s the point of all this?

Without balance and alignment in life we are destined to wear out and put ourselves in a dangerous position.  This translates excellently into missionary life preparation.  Here are some thoughts on how:

Balance:

  • There are seasons in life where you will have to work to take care of your family and build a solid foundation with them before you can go.  If you neglect this season of primarily taking care of your family and bringing them along with you, you will be out of balance.  Even once you are doing your work, you will have to make periodic adjustments to bring your family life back into balance. Continue Reading…

Thoughts on Missions Preparation

“Enthusiasm and passion may help someone succeed in getting to the field. Yet when the newness of ministry wanes, the exotic character of overseas living becomes humdrum, and once friendly relationships begin to deteriorate, much more will be needed.

David Hesselgrave reminds missionary candidates that “the first ten thousand miles in mission are relatively easy. It is the last eighteen inches that are difficult” The sense of urgency is undeniable and admirable, but there must not only be the urgency to go but the willingness to wait and be properly prepared.”-Steve Davis

I recently read this quote and I found it to be true.  It also got me thinking.  I began to think about the polar opposites of what a person may experience when they are sorting through the thoughts about potentially working as a cross cultural “missionary.”

On one hand there is a push to “go to the field” because of the great needs of the world and the reality of the “laborers” being few and far between.  This is true, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that we are part of the solution.  In our passion, we may be contributing to the problem if we are inadequately prepared and prematurely sent.

On the other hand, in some circles there is hardly even the mention of this type of work being a legitimate expression of ministry today, no opportunities presented as an entry way into it, and no structures in place to train and get qualified candidates out to where the need is great. Continue Reading…

I Want My Life To Fit Into the Book

Francis Chan

Francis Chan takes a look at his own life and “radical decisions” in light of what he finds in the Book.  He goes on to point out that what we consider is radical many times is just plain normal Christianity.  Take a moment to watch.  Continue Reading…

The Front Page Stories of Heaven

If you are reading this blog then you know how much media has changed and exploded in growth over even the last ten years.  It is truly a phenomenon and has changed the way we receive and process information, even as Pastors and cross cultural workers.

If we are not careful, we can think that the only thing that matters in this world today is what’s coming across our media streams.  We can begin to think that life is really all about what comes across the latest Facebook status or Twitter update.

Don’t get me wrong, I love social media.  I use it daily to stay in contact with people, events, and news from all over the world from half way across the world.  It definitely has benefits for us personally and for the Gospel.  But today I want to bring a different perspective and add something to your daily thinking that may not ever come across your mobile device.  I want to give you another context from which to view your life, your faith, and the decisions you make.

I believe the reality is that those who are doing some of the most extraordinary things for God on the planet in this generation will never have their story told to the world.

I have met some of these men.  They are leading movements of hundreds, sometimes thousands of churches, but are rarely spoken of by anyone outside of their circles of influence.  Others plow faithfully with only a few dozen followers in some of the roughest spiritual climates on earth.  Out of these leaders and churches come a huge amount of sacrificial work for the Gospel.   Continue Reading…

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