Craving affirmation; I think its something we all do at one time or another.
As human beings we are hard wired for affirmation. We respond to it.
When encouragement and affirmation comes from a person we admire or respect there is even a greater release of the “feel good” chemical in the brain.
Affirmation can push us on past the pain and difficulties we face.
We feel like we are heroes again… like somebody that actually matters.
- “You are such a good person.” ”
- “You are really smart.”
- “You’re one of the most dedicated people I know.”
- “You are really good at what you do.”
- “I appreciate your heart.”
Stuff like this….you know you love it!
Like a chocolate-lover who is fasting chocolate then gets to take a bite:
you feel the rush, the energy, the excitement of even the smallest taste.
Thai people, like all people, love affirmation too.
One of their favorite compliments is “You are a good person.”
The problem is there is hardly an ounce of encouragement and affirmation in the Thai culture. Continue Reading…